Thursday, March 31, 2011

tin pei ling - the new spore celebrity

im sure many of us have heard about tin pei ling recently.
she's one of the newly unveiled PAP candidate of only 27 years old.
and her background and personal life has been under attack ever since then,
with many people stalking her FaceBook and making comments about her photos.
Refer to this http://sg.news.yahoo.com/blogs/singaporescene/tin-pei-ling-victim-gutter-journalism-20110330-014441-579.html for a rather good summary!

and her reaction to this ultra big hoo hah,
is to privatise her FaceBook account and those photos.
she also privatised her Twitter.
if you're curious about which few photos of her has generated such high publicity,
refer to this http://rockson.blogspot.com/2011/03/tin-pei-ling-sexy-pap-xmm.html
the language used is not so refined, but its kinda funny in an ah beng singaporean kind of way.
and the most said Temasek Review http://www.temasekreview.com/2011/03/29/ms-tin-pei-ling-dumped-her-ex-boyfriend-to-marry-pms-principal-private-secretary/

she married a rich guy, and is doing well in her career.
so it doesn't come as a surprise that she's leading an extravagant lifestyle.
but whether she can still understand the heartfelt complaints of an average Singaporean awaits to be seen.

although personally i sympathise with her, i don't think it comes as any surprise.
especially when she's heading the New Media section of PAP and,
is supposed to reach out to the masses through usage of new media (social media).
she should have known that people would start searching for information about her on the net,
and FaceBook is a common tool.
although i have to agree, the degree of it is kind of overwhelming.

however, it may be a blessing in disguise.
given her young age and good looks, its hard for her to convince people of her ability.
Ms Tin needs to win respect from the people. 
this saga can be used to her advantage, given she handles it well.
i don't think hiding in silence and privatising every online profile of hers is a good attempt.

firstly, how are you going to reach out to the masses by privatising your profiles? where is the so-called interaction going to take place? it makes no sense to have a personal account and a public one for work purposes, because as a politican, your personal life will always be scrutinised by people. i mean, look at other countries, such as Japan. The media seriously scrutinises every small part of their ministers and make a big issue out of it. Given PAP's slogan of being open and honest, hiding behind private profiles won't help at all because people will start wondering - where is the so called openness?

secondly, Ms Tin is very young, she's a 4th generation. meaning, how she wins respect and support from the people is going to be very different and harder than before. she needs to reach out to youths, many whom are highly educated and exposed to many information - web savvyness complicates that further. These youths have grown up under the leadership of PAP, hence would have a certain degree of expectations for PAP and their future leadership. they have also witnessed the hard work of the opposition for many years, and have more or less formed an impression of PAP and these oppositions. they are waiting to see further development of spore's politics, and have very high demands of PAP now.

thirdly, to be a politician, one must have certain leadership qualities. if dear Ms Tin cannot even handle such a saga on her own, with her own people, at her home turf, then her ability to lead the country seems a bit questionable, because out there, the people she needs to face would be even more malicious and complicated to handle then these net citizens alone.

i agree with some net citizens who say its not fair to say 'give her a chance',
because PAP doesn't give the opposition a chance too. 
given how the opposition tries so hard and fights so hard just to be 'given a chance',
Ms Tin should undergo some trying times to hone up her character for future positions.

i think this whole elections thingy is quite interesting! you guys can read more comments from here: http://www.motochan.com/2011/03/30/the-tin-pei-ling-incident-is-a-storm-in-a-teacup/
http://www.sgpolitics.net/?p=6488

some of my opinions are formed based on the comments i read online. some really does, make sense in a way.

Friday, March 25, 2011

thought provoking. hmmm.

some thought provoking posts abt spore's politics:

http://www.facebook.com/notes/joel-joshua-goh/my-vote-counts-10-reasons-why-i-cannot-vote-for-the-pap-in-the-next-election/236626774675

http://www.facebook.com/note.php?note_id=10150173240219676

http://yaevlejunce.wordpress.com/2009/12/12/my-vote-counts-10-reasons-why-i-cannot-vote-for-the-pap-in-the-next-election/

i have some of my disagreements with what has been written, but shall not post here. haha. shall just say, nothing is perfect in this world. and that sometimes, bad things have to be done so as to protect the greater good. remember Robin Hood, who do bad things such as stealing, to benefit the poor? and sometimes, the big picture, and life's bare necessities, are the most important.

read, and go figure ;)

Thursday, March 24, 2011

因为幸福没有捷径只有经营 

wells! horrid wednesday is finally over!
not that the results are good.
was still rushing my assignment 2 hrs before submission time,
and the presentation and report kind of didn't go well with our prof :(
but let's all look on the bright side.
ITS OVER!!
if im gonna survive exchange alone,
i have to be much better in psycho-ing myself positively!

so to reward myself, i went to watch 康 熙來了,
the episode about Fan Fan and Hei Ren getting hitched!
was 2 episodes long actually, and they're so sweet! :)
seeing how they got through a whole 10 years,
accommodating to each other's needs and wants, just for him/her.

loved her new song especially, cause the lyrics are just so meaningful

for a relationship to work, both parties MUST know how to give in and accommodate
and at times, sacrifice what he/she likes to do what the other party she/he likes instead.
and like how Xiao S aptly puts it,
to be married means to be stuck with the other person for the rest of ur life.
it'll be utterly horrible and boring if both parties don't make special effort to spice up the life.

loved the last sentence of the song especially:
因为幸福没有捷径, 只有经营 .

Friday, March 18, 2011

well, its certainly not that i want to complain,
but i would truly appreciate it if my team mates or project mates are more active and takes more initiative in the projects.
you guys are not the only one with busy schedules and deadlines.
but thats not an excuse to leave the project aside.
when there is a tight timeline and insufficient time,
certain things take priority.
i dun understand why some people keeps looking at the nitty gritty details,
and in turn,
lose focus about the entire overall objective.

Sunday, March 13, 2011

crossroads

Been doing a few personality tests lately due to me feeling lost about my future career path.
they say follow your interests and your talent.
okay, maybe not talent, but what you do well in.
but sometimes, just sometimes,
when life puts you in certain circumstances,
how do you decide which to follow?

here's another personality test result of mine:

well, at least i improved and developed some personality.
the last time i did something likdat,
it says im equally developed in all 4 quadrants.
in other words, im 25% of everything which equals to...
no personality.

a little update,
i've been holing myself up at home over the weekend
watching this new Korean drama called 'Dream High!'
its damn damn awesome.
its like e Korean version of GLEE,
only better because it has a good plot (unlike GLEE)
and the songs are original,
and the lyrics are totally in sync with the storyline.
go watch go watch!

Thursday, March 10, 2011

what are words

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nQY4dIxY1H4 

listened to his song and was quite touched. 
especially the lyrics!
if only a guy would do this for me. 
i'd marry him straight away. 
haha!

The Lyrics!
Anywhere you are, I am near
Anywhere you go, I'll be there
Anytime you whisper my name, you'll see
How every single promise I keep
Cuz what kind of guy would I be
If I was to leave when you need me most

What are words
If you really don't mean them
When you say them
What are words
If they're only for good times
Then they don't
When it's love
Yeah, you say them out loud
Those words, They never go away
They live on, even when we're gone

And I know an angel was sent just for me
And I know I'm meant to be where I am
And I'm gonna be
Standing right beside her tonight
And I'm gonna be by your side
I would never leave when she needs me most

What are words
If you really don't mean them
When you say them
What are words
If they're only for good times
Then they don't
When it's love
Yeah, you say them out loud
Those words, They never go away
They live on, even when we're gone

Anywhere you are, I am near
Anywhere you go, I'll be there
And I'm gonna be here forever more
Every single promise I keep
Cuz what kind of guy would I be
If I was to leave when you need me most

I'm forever keeping my angel close
<3

Wednesday, March 09, 2011

im useless after all

aarrgghh. very stressed now cos of dear FYP.
and of all my luck, all my deadlines come at the same time after recess week =/
let me see, i have 1 assignment, FYP report, 1 presentation, 1 report, 1 quiz, and my INSTEP application package to worry about. all over the span of 1 week.
and that not including other pending projects - 3 presentations and 2 reports. 
doesn't help that even though i've been attending lessons dutifully,
i still have no idea what they're about.
how the hell am i supposed to finish reading up everything taught in half a sem in 1 week?!!
and i wonder how the hell did i cope in all the previous semesters.
i slacked too, but e situation wasn't so disastrous.

and meanwhile, i'm really hating myself for slacking so much and having no discipline.
i seriously can't get ANY work done!
and not to mention being unable to make decisions properly.
damn it.

on a sidenote, i enjoyed my shopping spree yesterday!
Bought 1 bracelet, 2 headbands, 1 Shu uemura blusher, and a pair of black pumps!
and of all, i love the Shu Uemura product best.
the lady was really very nice and provides good advice.
i think im going to switch all my makeup to Shu Uemura from now on =/